Saturday, August 6, 2011

Am i wrong for saying that if my signification other was ever with a prostitute that it would be a dealbreaker?

i want somebody who has the same morals and values as me. if they were younger and went to one but regretted it now that they are older i probably would look past it; but if they went to one and acted like it was no big deal, or see it as no big deal and wouldn't really mind going to one, i don't think i could bring myself to be with that person ever again mainly because i am a feminist who see's prostitution as a patriarchal thing. to me its saying that women only care about money not sex so why not pay them for sex? that to me gives into sexual stereotypes that i just don't want my man to believe or have. its cool if others don't see it that way or don't care about it morally, i'm not saying they are bad people, its just not somebody who i want to raise kids with because i want my children to have the same values and morals that i do. that men and women are sexually equal, and to me prostitution just does not go with that because when a man buys a woman(or her "services") it becomes all about him and his sexual needs and not about her and her sexual needs, its uneven to me. i may get called a prude, or self righteous but i was raised to believe that women are equal to men and should not rely on them for money in any way. i feel like i'm crazy for feeling like this, but its just a deal breaker for me!

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