Am I too smart to be in a relationship or too selfish? Which is it?

You are too smart, and I am proud of you. I have made the mistake of entering a relationship twice in the past and both times I look back and saw how miserable I was and how much happier I am now just banging them and nothing more. Men have nothing to gain out of marriage and only something to lose. Relationships also have a cost which is your independence as women try to dominate as much of your time as possible. If you have career ambitions or hobbies that you truly enjoy doing, consider those to be seriously affected.